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Is Rational Emotive Therapy Right For You?

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Posted By Alex Perez - Mental Health Writer, B.A.

What is Rational Emotive Therapy?

Rational Emotive Therapy, Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy, or Rational Therapy (REBT-RET) is a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in which the way of looking at the world around us and the events that accompany it is adjusted by targeted exercises. In doing so, one achieves a more positive outlook on our lives and delivers results by putting aside the beliefs that block our mental development. Our emotions and their outcome are central to Rational Emotive Therapy.

Albert Ellis, founder of Rational Emotive Therapy

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Albert Ellis is a clinical psychology doctor who developed Rational Emotive Therapy in the 1950s. He started as a clinical psychologist and over the years discovered that this form of therapy had shortcomings. Thanks to all the data that he had collected over the years about his patients, he has developed this new form of therapy.

Rational Emotive Therapy is based on the distinction between healthy negative emotions and unhealthy negative emotions. The healthy negative emotions are emotions that are part of our healthy, normal way of thinking.

For example, it makes sense that you are sad when a family member becomes seriously ill. In the case of unhealthy negative emotions, these mental block frames will be removed so that inappropriate behavior and irrational emotions will be replaced by rational emotions. For example, it is neither healthy nor logical that you panic when you are behind the wheel because you are sure that something bad is going to happen. This is an irrational thought that can be transformed into a rational thought where you realize that everything you do in life is associated with some form of risk but that you should not be held back from doing activities in your life.

In his later work, Ellis changed RET to REBT to put more emphasis on the behavioral aspect in addition to the emotional aspect of Rational Emotive Therapy.

How does rational emotional therapy work?

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Rational emotional therapy is based on the ABC model:

A. Adversity, activating event or reason;
B. Beliefs, conviction, bias;
C. Consequences, effect, result.

In this case, it is not the adversity (A) that is the cause of the effect (C) but the beliefs (B). So it is not the events in themselves that will determine your state of mind, but rather the way you view life in general and these events in particular.

Rational Emotive Therapy is also known as Rational Effectiveness Training because the goal of the therapy is to make you “change your glasses” by applying highly targeted exercises or techniques.

The simplified explanation is that you will systematically practice so that you exchange your dark blue glasses for light pink glasses.

In doing so, (A) the world around you and the events that accompany it will remain unchanged.
However, the results will be booked on the fact that the outcome of your actions (C) will improve.
This happens because you will learn to exchange your negative thoughts and destructive behavior, which is anchored in some form of belief, by a positive and assertive way of looking at life (B).

So it is not the setbacks we face that are at the root of our problems but rather our thinking patterns that lead to emotional and behavioral issues.

Let’s give a practical example:

 You are invited for an interview and put on your best-tailored suit, print your resume, practice a few standard answers, and get up to your job interview in good spirits.
A few days later, you will receive an email saying that you have been rejected for the position (A) you wanted to fill.

Then you may think that you are not good enough for such a position and that you will never succeed (B negative). In this case, you send a few resumes hoping that someone will answer.

Or you may think that statistically, it makes sense that you will be rejected for a certain percentage of the interviews and that you have at least already gained some experience in applying for a job, which will undoubtedly make things easier next time. So you take a moment to check on which points you can improve and apply further until the next invitation arrives (B positive).

The outcome will be completely different in both cases.
In the first case, you will approach your next job interview in fear and with a negative self-image and your chances of success will plummet due to a wrong bias, which will most likely lead to rejection.

You will feel guilty for this and fear of failure will arise, making the third application even more difficult (C negative).

Or you may have applied a constructive way of thinking and confidently go to the next job interview because you have already gained some experience and worked on your weaknesses. This is followed by a relaxed and smooth job interview, after which you are accepted (C positive).

Beliefs can create a lot of unreal fears that can make you sabotage yourself. By working on these emotional blocks you can form a rational worldview again and react appropriately. Learning to distinguish between appropriate and inappropriate emotions or reactions is very important for the patient’s self-development.

Rational Emotional Therapy distinguishes two types of cognition or the way we view the world around us. Warm and cold cognition. We have little control over the cold cognition as these are the psychological and emotional patterns that have been formed over the years based on our life experiences. Warm cognition are emotional and behavioral patterns that are formed after analysis, adjustment, and practice.

What techniques does rational emotional therapy use?

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  1. Problem-solving technique
    Within Rational Emotive therapy, the problem-solving technique ensures that the patient starts thinking within the ABC model. We work on conflict resolution, assertiveness, indecision, procrastination, and social skills.
  2. Cognitive restructuring technique
    The cognitive restructuring technique helps the patient say goodbye to irrational thoughts. We work on rational thinking patterns, visualization, and reconstruction of thinking patterns, refuting irrational thoughts, and exposure to fears.
  3. Coping technique
    This last step is applied to patients who already use the rational thinking pattern but who are still subconsciously stuck. It uses hypnosis, relaxation techniques, meditation, and breathing techniques.

Who is rational emotional therapy for?

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Rational emotional therapy is effective for depression, suicidal tendencies, stress, post-traumatic stress, anxiety disorders, panic attacks, social phobia, agoraphobia and other phobias, stuttering, addiction, obsessive-compulsive personality disorder, insomnia, marital problems, autism and behavioral problems in children.

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